
Your wedding weekend at
If you are looking for a relaxed country backdrop but don’t want to compromise on great local food for your dream wedding, The Arnold House on Shandelee may be just what you are looking for!
We host weddings year-round with a focus on customizing your big day so that everything is what you’ve ever dreamed of. Located 2 hours north of NYC, our country retreat specializes in lively barn events and outdoor weekend weddings on our expansive grounds. We also offer cozy affairs during winter months with our brand new temperature-controlled Greenhouse and roaring wood stoves in our main inn.
Our dedicated and passionate staff will make sure your wedding weekend is a weekend to remember – full of memories amidst loved ones, and we offer multiple backdrops and locations for your events to help keep the weekend feeling varied and exciting.
Enjoy carefully crafted menus that showcase best in seasonality that are not only playful but will leave your guests asking for seconds and thirds! We are committed to sourcing food from good people we know and are happy to work with you to create a personalized menu you’ve always dreamed of. Rest assured everything will be seasonally fresh, local & yum!
Skip the pressure and have some fun - not only will we help you host the perfect wedding, we will also take care of your guests from when they first check-in to when they pack their bags to head back to reality. Let us help plan seasonal activities for you and the gang to make sure you optimize the area and the weekend. We have the inside scoop on all your must do’s.
We would be honored to work with you on such an important occasion and our team is committed to helping you get it just right! After all it is your big day and we want it to feel as personable and tailored to the two of you as possible.

Pricing
A lot is included in these prices so you can worry less and enjoy more, so make sure to ask us about it.
2026 Pricing
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2026 Late Spring Pricing
Reception menu starts at $160/per person (includes a 3 hour open bar)
Peak season requirement of 120 guests.
Site Fee: Starting at $6,000 + | F&B Minimum: Starting at $30K +
2026 Summer & Fall Pricing
Reception menu starts at $160/per person (includes a 3 hour open bar)
Peak season requirement of 120 guests.
Site Fee: Starting at $16,000 + | F&B Minimum: Starting at $35K +
2026 Winter & Early Spring Pricing
Reception menu starts at $160/per person (includes a 3 hour open bar)
Off Peak season maximum of 100 guests.
Site Fee: Starting at $4,000 + | F&B Minimum: Starting at $15K +













Wedding Testimonials
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"The venue is beautiful, the food was so delicious, the staff are incredible (and really know how to dance!), the bartenders were awesome and really know their stuff!"
-Mother of the Bride
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"Everything we could have hoped for! Met all of our family and friends expectations and even surprised some people that the Catskills could be so cool. I was shocked to go into the barn/greenhouse when I realized that this gorgeous set up was for my wedding! We just don't want to leave!"
-Bride
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"When I see hospitality done right, I'm going to let you know. And I'm telling you now - this place is GOLD. It's the whole package."
-Maid of Honor
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“The Arnold House was perfect in so many ways. All of our guests were obsessed with the venue, loved the food (better than most of the food we get in NYC!), service was always so on point and everyone was so helpful and genuinely nice! We feel so lucky to have chosen the Arnold House and can't wait to return.”
-Wedding Couple
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"The staff at The Arnold House are an absolute dream. They feel like family, and are so delightful throughout the whole process. The location is beautiful, our guests felt so welcome, and the food was amazing. It was like a long weekend with our loved ones gathering in one large, cozy home -- just what we wanted!"
-Bride
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"Every time I think back, I literally just shake my head and say either “wow 🥹” or “🥹 I can’t believe it.” We had the wedding of our dreams. And it’s all thanks to you!! We missed being there as soon as we got home. We can’t thank you enough. You made us, our families, and our crazy friends feel right at home from the moment we got there. Thank you. Beyond all expectation, from the moment we started planning till now!!! Blown away, in awe, in tears, The Arnold House is in our hearts forever!!!"
-Bride & Groom

Make Your Wedding Uniquely Yours
W offer the perfect backdrop for your one-of-a-kind celebration at The Arnold House.
Dog-Friendly Wedding Celebrations
Bring your beloved four-legged family members to be a part of your special day! The Arnold House welcomes your furry friends to join the celebration, ensuring your entire family can share in the memories of your wedding weekend.
Weekend-Long Celebrations
Make the most of your wedding with our Friday to Sunday weekender package. Kick off the festivities with a welcome gathering on Friday night, celebrate your ceremony and reception on Saturday, and enjoy a farewell brunch on Sunday. This extended format gives you more quality time with loved ones in our beautiful Catskills setting.
Barn & Greenhouse Wedding Venues
Choose between our rustic Barn for a charming country celebration or our temperature-controlled Greenhouse for an elegant garden-inspired wedding event. Each space offers a distinctive atmosphere while maintaining The Arnold’s signature relax elegance.
Rehearsal Dinner or Post-Wedding Delights
Treat your guests to a unique dining experience with delectable local hor d’ouvres or our famous mobile pizza oven, offering freshly made artisanal pizzas that add a fun, interactive element to your rehearsal dinner or post-wedding gathering. All our food showcases locally sourced ingredients prepared by our culinary team.


To begin planning your wedding weekend at
The Arnold, fill our the form below.
Property tours are by appointment only. These are required to be scheduled in advance. We recommend allowing 2 weeks from the time of your inquiry to visit. For further information, you may also view our profile on the Venue Report and we look forward to meeting you!
Videographer @josebotellafilms
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Frequently Asked Questions
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We're a relaxed country retreat 2 hours north of NYC that specializes in lively barn events and outdoor weekend weddings. We offer multiple backdrops and locations to keep your wedding weekend varied and exciting, with a focus on customizing your big day to your dreams.
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Yes! We host weddings in all seasons. During warmer months, we focus on outdoor events on our expansive grounds. In winter, we offer cozy affairs with our temperature-controlled Greenhouse and roaring wood stoves in our main inn.
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Our dedicated staff ensures your wedding weekend is memorable, focusing on personalized service. We skip the pressure and focus on fun, helping you and your guests enjoy a relaxed celebration.
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Late Spring: Reception starts at $160/person (includes 3-hour open bar), 120 guest minimum, Site Fee starting at $6,000+, F&B Minimum starting at $30K+
Summer & Fall: Reception starts at $160/person, 120 guest minimum, Site Fee starting at $16,000+, F&B Minimum starting at $35K+
Winter & Early Spring: Reception starts at $160/person, 100 guest maximum, Site Fee starting at $4,000+, F&B Minimum starting at $35K+
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A lot is included in our prices so you can worry less and enjoy more. Please ask us about specific inclusions when you inquire.
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We create carefully crafted menus showcasing seasonal ingredients that are playful and delicious. We're committed to sourcing from local people we know and will work with you to create a personalized menu. Everything is seasonally fresh, local, and delicious!
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Yes! We work with couples to create personalized menus and can accommodate various dietary needs and preferences.
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Yes! We welcome your beloved four-legged family members to be part of your special day, ensuring your entire family can share in your wedding weekend memories.
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Our Friday to Sunday weekender package includes a welcome gathering on Friday night, ceremony and reception on Saturday, and farewell brunch on Sunday. This gives you more quality time with loved ones in our beautiful Catskills setting.
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Choose between our rustic Barn for a charming country celebration or our temperature-controlled Greenhouse for an elegant garden-inspired wedding or combine them both for a larger affair. A tent site is also available directly behind the Barn & Greenhouse for an extended space.. All options offer a distinctive atmosphere with The Arnold's signature relaxed elegance.
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Yes! We can host rehearsal dinners with local hors d'oeuvres or our famous mobile pizza oven, offering freshly made artisanal pizzas for a fun, interactive dining experience.
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Fill out the inquiry form on our website. Property tours are by appointment only. You can also view our profile on The Venue Report for more information.
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Yes, property tours can be arranged and must be scheduled in advance. We recommend allowing 2 weeks from your inquiry to visit.